15 Things About The Character of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) Every Muslim Must Spread
If
there is any personality that has lived on the face of this earth who
was complete in every regard and the life of whom can serve as a beacon
of guidance for people of every walk of life, that personality would
undeniably be the personality of Muhammad (PBUH).
Muslims
follow Him because of Him being the Prophet as their religion and those
who do not follow Islam also hold Him at a higher pedestal when it
comes to human character.
Prophet
Muhammad (PBUH) was born in Saudi Arabia in the city of Makkah about
1400 years ago. Since then the world has not seen the likes of Him in
every regard and the study of human history shows that there have been
none better than Him before Him as well.The
key factor that brings reverence and respect to Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)
in both the Islamic and the non-Islamic circles is His character. He
was the best in character and He also said about in one of His hadiths
in the following way:
“God has sent me to perfect good manners and to do good deeds.” (Bukhari)
The lines below discuss some major character traits of Prophet (PBUH) that every Muslim should spread as much as possible.
1. All For The Sake Of Allah:
Prophet
(PBUH) as selfless as a person could be in life. All his undertakings
and motives were just to fulfill the order of Allah and He did not
undertake any action out of His personal desire and will. He lived
everyday of His life for the sake of Allah and everything which He did
was for the Almighty.
The
extent of His selflessness can be seen from the example of His
preaching in the valley of Taif, where people lead naughty children to
throw stones at Him while He was preaching. He had to run for His life
and He was all covered in blood. But still He did not complain to Allah
about Him, rather one of His companions narrates:
“The
Prophet (PBUH) resembled a Prophet who was harmed by His people. He
wiped the blood from His face and said: ‘O God! Forgive my people, for
they know not!” (Bukhari)
Such is the selflessness in His character and every moment of His life was for the sake of Allah and spreading His message.
2. Mannerism:
Prophet
(PBUH) was the epitome of good manners. Every action that He undertook
in life represented the highest morals and manners that a person could
exhibit. He was an Ideal being in terms of manners and ethics, the likes
of which the world has not seen. As one of His companions notes about
His manners:
“The
Prophet (PBUH) did not swear at anyone, nor was He rude, nor did He
curse anyone. If He desired to reprimand someone, He would say: ‘What is
wrong with him, may dust be cast in his face!” (Bukhari)
Thus if a Muslim is to give an example of the manners of someone, there would be none more suitable than Muhammad (PBUH).
3. Humor:
People
think that being a religious leader of Islam, Prophet (PBUH) had
nothing to do with humor, rather He was all strictness and stringency.
This perception is wrong, as Prophet (PBUH) was the one with the finest
sense of humor, the likes of which again cannot be seen in anyone. His
sense of humor was not vulgar in any sense or anything that would debase
or make fun of someone, rather it was fine. Anas (RA) reports such an
example by saying:
“Once
a man asked Muhammad (PBUH) for an animal to ride. He replied that He
would give him the baby of a she-camel to ride on. The man asked ‘What
would he do with a she-camel baby?’ Muhammad (PBUH) replied, ‘Is there
any camel which is not born of a she-camel?’”
4. Peace Lover:
The
general notion regarding Islam and Prophet (PBUH) is that they both
encouraged violence in people and were and are not in favor of peace. It
is totally baseless, because the religion Islam itself is peace and
Prophet (PBUH) was a lover of peace. He wanted people to live in
harmony and always encouraged people resolve their differences by opting
for peace, instead of going for violence. In one of His hadith Prophet
(PBUH) said:
“Let us go to resolve the situation and make peace between them.” (Bukhari)
Thus, Muslims should spread His message of peace by giving examples out of the actions He undertook to ensure peace.
5. Kind To The Kids:
Prophet
(PBUH) always treated kids with kindness and mercy. He always enjoyed
their company and played with them to make them happy. One such example
can be seen from His life when He used to say to kids:
“I’ll give such and such (i.e. gift or so) to the one who comes to me first.”
So they used to race and fall on His back and chest. (Ahmad)
This
shows His treatment towards kids and there are countless other examples
in His lifetime where He commanded parents to be loving and caring
towards their children.
6. Generosity:
Generosity is another hallmark of the personality of Muhammad (PBUH).
He was the most generous person there could ever be. He preferred
others over Himself and always fulfilled the needs of anyone who came to
Him to ask for something. One of His companions notes:
“The Prophet (PBUH) did not refuse to give anything which He had to someone if he asked for it.” (Bukhari)
His
generosity is something that Muslims should aspire to and spread the
examples of His generosity to other people as well so that the world
could become a better place.
7. Caring Of Women:
Another
allegation against Islam is that it is a religion that oppresses women,
therefore, being the bringer of the religion, Muhammad (PBUH) is also
attributed with women oppressing attributes. This perception is also
wrong, because Prophet (PBUH) was very caring of the rights of the women
and commended His followers to give special treatment to women by
giving them respect and equal rights that they ought to have. In one of
His hadiths He said:
“Whoever
(brings up) two girls till they come of age, will be in the next world
along with me, like my two fingers joining each other.” (Abu Dawud)
If
He were an oppressor of women, He could have simply mentioned male
orphan children, however, He gave preference to raising up of female
children. This shows the care He had for women and their rights.
8. Pleasantness:
Another
misconception is that Prophet (PBUH) would be someone who would always
be harsh and strict on the people He interacted with. It is also a wrong
perception because Prophet (PBUH) was the most pleasant person. He
would greet everyone with a smile and always spoke to people with
gentleness. His companion said about Him:
“I have never seen a man who smiled as much as the Messenger of Allah.” (Tirmidhi)
This
shows that the personality of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was pleasant and
gentle. A person who would smile most of the times ought to leave a good
impression on people, and wherever He would go He ought to have spread
love and pleasantness.
9. Concerned About Orphans:
Prophet
Muhammad (PBUH) did not just love who were around Him, nor did He only
loved those who were related to Him, rather He considered the entire
society. In society, He was especially considerate of orphans and would
commend His followers to take special care of the orphans as they did
not have parents to look after them. In one of His hadiths, He said:
“The
best house among the Muslims is one where an orphan is well treated,
and the worst house among the Muslims is one where an orphan is badly
treated.” (Ibn Majah)
Muslims
must take a leaf out of His treatment of orphans and treat the orphans
fairly and wherever one sees the orphans being oppressed, a Muslim
should raise voice for it and stop it from happening.
10. Cooperation:
Prophet
(PBUH) is the best and the highest among people, however, whilst all
the greatness and grandeur, He was cooperative towards people and helped
others in doing the chores in any way He could help them. He never
treated Himself as someone special, rather He would mix with common
people and cooperate with them in any way He could. As one of His
companion narrates regarding the battle of Trench:
“I
saw the Messenger of Allah on the Day of the Trench carrying dirt (that
was dug from the trench) until His chest was covered with dirt.” (Bukhari)
Thus,
a Muslim must also not value status or rank, rather be helping towards
people and give his or her fair share in the efforts that all of the
people are putting.
11. Animal Rights Activist:
Perhaps
Muhammad (PBUH) was the first animal rights activist on the face of
this earth who raised voice for the fair treatment of animal. He told
people that animals were also creation of Allah and they deserved to be
treated fairly, instead of being harsh, strict and ignorant towards
them. Hazrat Aisha (RA) narrated:
“I
once found difficulty in riding a horse, so I kept reining it in
repeatedly. The Prophet (PBUH) then said, ‘You must have gentleness.’” (Muslim)
Ergo,
Muslims should learn from His treatment of animals and should try being
as gentle and as considerate towards animals as possible and treat them
fairly.
12. Disassociation From Worldly Possessions:
A
person who is so selfless that He would give anything that He had to
anyone who asked for it and would do everything for the sake of Allah,
it is quite natural that person has little or no concern with the
worldly possessions. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) did not want anything of
this world, rather whatever He had He spent it on other people and
helped them solve their material problems and issues. Regarding this
attribute of His personality, one of His companions notes:
“The
Messenger of Allah did not leave any gold or silver currency, or a
slave, male or female, after his death. He only left behind his white
mule, his weapons and a piece of land which He declared as charity.” (Bukhari)
Prophet
(PBUH) was the Prophet of Allah, the leader of Islam however, when He
passed away all He left was nothing as mentioned in the above hadith.
Therefore, one can realize the disconcert He had for the worldly
possessions and material things.
13. Modesty:
Another
striking personality attribute of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) is His
modesty. He was the modest of all and never encouraged any kind of
vulgarity, rather He was bashful and strongly encouraged modesty in His
followers. In one of His hadiths, He said:
“Modesty is a part of teachings of the previous Prophets and anyone who lacks it is most likely to do whatever he likes.” (Reported by Abdullah ibn Maslamah)
Thus,
modesty is imperative to Islam and Prophet (PBUH) being a living and
breathing Islam ascertains that He was modest in every respect.
14. Considerate:
Whether
it be animals, women, children, orphans, enemies, fellow Muslims,
followers, elders, or it be anyone in the society, for everyone of them
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was considerate. He would love children and
orphans, He would treat animals fairly,
He
would give women their rights, He would respect the elders, He would
provide what people asked of Him, thus He was considerate to everyone
without any discrimination. Prophet (PBUH) said in a hadith:
“I
stand up for prayer intending to prolong it. In the meantime I hear the
wailing of a baby and I have to shorten my prayer, being apprehensive
lest my recitation of a long verse may tell upon the baby’s mother.” (Bukhari)
15. General Appearance:
In
His general appearance , Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) as beautiful, pure,
simple, gentle and yet so common as any other person could be. His
general appearance is detailed by one of His companions in the following
way:
“The
Prophet (PBUH) was a person of average height. His shoulder were wide.
His hair reached his earlobes. Once I saw Him adorned in a red garment; I
never saw anything more beautiful than Him.” (Bukhari)
In
a nutshell, no matter whichever walk of life it is, whatever situation
of life it is, a Muslim is to turn towards the personality of Muhammad
(PBUH) and find that particular piece of guidance from it. Muslims must
spread the life of Prophet (PBUH) because it is not only good for
Muslims, rather the goodwill that comes from it has a universal appeal
and will help make the world a better place.
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